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How to Be a Flop!

How To Be A Flop, Cartoon by Kirsten Harris

 

Instead of a ‘how to be a success’ blog I thought I would write one about how to be a flop! Let’s take some pressure off and hopefully make life a little easier. It’s really much easier being a flop after all!

 

So, what if it was absolutely OK to be a flop at work, at home or at school? What if being a flop is actually a way to achieve more success? What if people actually saw your flopping as wonderful self care! A little bit of daily ease!

 

So when the pressure gets just too much why not just give up for a bit and let yourself flop over. Sitting on a chair is the easiest way. Simply let yourself hang out for a bit with your head between your legs and let go.  People will probably ask you if you are ok but that’s ok. It feels good being floppy, quite a relief really. So don’t worry what you look like, go ahead, flop!

 

Let your neck be free so your head can really hang…

Surrender the weight of your head to give your neck and back a wonderful releasing stretch…

Let the weight of your arms hang heavily, freeing your shoulder muscles and stretching the connective tissue around the shoulder blades, an area that can get really tight…

Let yourself breathe out, big sighing out breaths easing the ribs…

Let go and give up being an upright person for a bit and enjoy the view from between your legs!

 

Congratulations you are now a flop!

If you have a cat or a dog they will probably want to lick your face as you are now at their level and they think that is very exciting. Just a mini hazard of your new found flopdom.

 

STRANGE BUT TRUE – if you imagine looking up your nose, you will get more of a releasing stretch on the back of your neck!

 

It feels great being a flop. Really it’s a giant relief to take time out for a minute or two.

 

When you want to come up again, think about rebuilding the spine slowly from the bottom up … like a tower block … vertebrae by vertebrae…one bone at a time … one on top of the other … leaving your head until last so that it can find its balance point on the two rockers on the base of your skull.

 

I recommend you let yourself be a flop at least once a day. It really is jolly good for your daily ease!

 

With love

Kirsten

 

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Rampage of Appreciation – Training to be an Alexander Technique Teacher

RAMPAGE OF APPRECIATION – TRAINING TO BE AN ALEXANDER TECHNIQUE TEACHER

 

At the age of 24 the Alexander Technique changed my life! That first hands-on lesson with it’s gently encouraging profound words from my first teacher, Astrid Cox, are moments I will never forget. Light bulbs switched on in my mind like a Disney cartoon with heavenly choirs of birds and angels rejoicing! It was a visual wonder movie in my mind’s eye and a giant relief to my entire being. I knew in that first lesson that, not only was I going to be OK from the incredibly painful spasms that I was experiencing in my neck, but that I wanted to learn to teach The Alexander Technique. I had found my calling.

 

It took another few years of thinking about and practicing the Alexander Technique and having lessons before I started my training with the late, great Don Burton. It was the most wonderful three years of my life. 1600 hours of experiential bliss! I loved my fellow trainees with all my heart. Our year group was nicknamed the The Fellside Pack of Dogs with our one for all and all for one love for each other, and the teachers were fantastic and inspiring. The three years worth of hands-on work and all that went with it, quite simply transformed everything. Alexander Technique hands-on work is like no other that I have experienced and will always open doors of perception and increase one’s knowledge on many levels.

 

Over the 3 years my artwork blossomed. Some evenings I would stay late at the school, alone in the movement studio, and by morning the whole studio would be filled with a new exhibition of art work. My creativity was releasing along with everything else. That was over twenty years ago. Since then I have worked as an Alexander Technique teacher and artist in equal measures, and for me, one would not have been possible without the other. It has been a lot of fun and moved me forward in ways I could never have imagined.

(Jamie McDowell recently sent me a photo of this art piece that I made at the time. So brilliant that he kept it. Thank you Jamie!)

 

What I love about the Alexander Technique is it opens doors – one gets the chance to work with all sorts of amazing people in all sorts of amazing places. What a joy. What an adventure. But what I most love is that at the heart of the work is a principle, a truth, a paradigm, that is as simple as it is profound, and works. Truly works. The word art is often used with Alexander Technique because one’s understanding and skills deepen and reveal more and more over time. As the saying goes, you get better at getting better. It is why people become passionate about it, or perhaps Alexander Technique opens up peoples passion. When you do start to find the lessons of the Alexander Technique, and that can start to happen in the first lesson, it reveals all. Alexander Technique is, I believe one way to the truth – a practical, loving, principled way, that sits well with all sorts of other disciplines such as music, the equestrian arts and dancing.

 

The reason I am writing all this is that I truly believe that training to be an Alexander Technique teacher with the rigours of a 1600 hour hands-on, in person training, is truly worthwhile. In this age of quick fixes and online courses I want to give a big cheer for a personal training that is life changing, educational, encourages responsibility, deepens ones awareness and self knowledge and has a principle at the heart of it that is both reliable, time tested and endorsed by the British Medical Journal.

 

Committing to an Alexander Technique Teacher training course was both the hardest and best choice I ever made. All other choices have just got easier!

 

So to all the people who I have ever worked with … a massive thank you and a big recommendation to anyone considering committing to a training course – yes, it is a three years of your life, but you will LOVE it.

‘Letting Go’

Cartoon by Kirsten Harris

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Friesans to be Cheerful!

‘I want to be a lovely cow

Chewing on the cud

Ruminating all that’s wow

Even mucky mud!’

 

‘The Alexander Technique is a way of transforming stress to joy!’ Juliet Binoche

 

‘Moo, moo, moo’ moo the cows..

Freeing their breathing…

Letting go of stress….

MOOOOOOO

 

‘Moo Squeak Up!’ says a little mouse, your voice is important …

‘Think Up’ – says another …

‘Up! Up!’

‘Be up!’

‘Forward and Up!’

‘Spring up!’

The mice share important knowledge… little spiritual warriors… the mice know their mind effects their movement through life…

 

The band of happy mice see lots of reasons to be cheerful….

Their thinking makes them cheerful…

Moo says the cow… Friesians to be cheerful… Moo….

It’s a choice….

Wow Wow Wow!!!

 

A fun page from The Daily Ease 2017 Calendar –

A daft blog with an important message about releasing the out breath to let go of our inner cow…..

And the power of thinking up…

The empowering choices in the moment that the wonderful Alexander Technique give us here and cow!

It’s the power of cow!

 

To buy The Daily Ease 2017 Calendar for your Alexander Technique journey

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Have an easy day…. I love MOO!

 

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Try Mooing

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Try Mooing

I just did!..

 

Went for a walk with the dog, mooing!

A really good grounding sound

Made me smile

 

Moo to anchor the voice into the body

Moo to let go

Moo to make yourself happy

Moo to open your breathing

Moo to let go of all that horrible old stale air

Moo to activate the diaphragm

Moo to reenergise your blood

Moo to vibrate yourself into more energy!

Are you going to MOO TOO?

 

Go on be a silly cow and MOOOOOOOOO!

 

 

 

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